OVERVIEW
Never use terms like “clean” to describe someone’s HIV status; it is stigmatizing and implies that people living with HIV are “dirty.”
Be precise and specific when referring to bodily fluids. Some fluids, like urine and saliva, do not carry or transmit HIV. Only four bodily fluids can transmit HIV: breastmilk, blood, semen, and vaginal fluids.
While the term “men who have sex with men” or MSM is commonly used in public health research and reports, it should not be used with general audiences. For decades, HIV data and collection methods have systematically misgendered transgender and gender expansive communities, especially trans women. Data sources often ignore the full spectrum of gender identity in LGBTQ+ communities, for instance by not acknowledging non-binary people. Also, the term “men who have sex with men” should not be used as an umbrella term for men who are gay, bisexual, or queer, as it overly simplifies identities and relationships. Finally, there is a racialized dimension to the term MSM. It was created by public health officials specifically to address the fact that HIV and AIDS research and advocacy was often overly focused on white gay men, yet it ignores labels that communities of color have chosen for themselves, such as same-gender loving.
Because of these issues, the term MSM should only be used for public health audiences or when directly quoting sources or data. For general audiences, make sure that language is specific, respectful, and acknowledges the reality and diversity of LGBTQ+ communities.
For further examples of specific terms to use and avoid, please consult the comprehensive 2024 guide from the National Institute for Allergy and Infectious Diseases.
Resources
These organizations represent HIV advocates and people living with HIV:
The CDC and HIV.gov have up-to-date information on HIV’s impact on specific communities, HIV science and research, prevention, testing and treatment, and national efforts to end the HIV epidemic.
The 2024 comprehensive language guide from NIAID is a useful resource for reporters, health care professionals, and policy makers.
The Center for HIV Law and Policy, CHLP, offers resources on HIV criminalization and the current status of HIV law and policy across the states.
The Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law publishes state-specific factsheets on HIV and public health and HIV criminalization, including racial disparities.
For an expert medical perspective, NASTAD represents public health leaders in HIV and hepatitis in all US states and territories.
Equality Federation is a national network of 48 state-based LGBTQ+ advocacy organizations. We can provide a national perspective, recommend other national organizations with relevant expertise, and connect reporters to leaders working in their states to modernize HIV laws.
Equality Federation appreciates the collaboration of our coalition partners and their many contributions to HIV advocacy, including best practices for talking about HIV.
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